Confidence Coaching for Women

You don't become her.
You build her.

I help women stop starting over and finally follow through. Build Her is 1:1 accountability and lifestyle coaching for women ready to build real, lasting confidence — starting with the body, backed by a stronger mind, and supported by a healthier relationship with money. Weekly accountability, honest check-ins, and a plan that actually fits your life.

What I Do

I help women lose weight, build discipline, and step into the version of themselves they keep talking about — through 1:1 coaching, weekly accountability check-ins, and a structure that keeps you consistent even on your busiest weeks. Most of my clients start with body and weight-loss coaching, and layer in mindset or money coaching once the foundation is set.

The Three Pillars

Everything I coach on falls under one of three pillars.

01

Body

Weight loss, movement, and accountability. This is the core of what I do — structured check-ins, exercise accountability, and a sustainable plan so the results actually stick.

02

Mind

Confidence and mindset coaching. We work on the self-talk, the habits, and the beliefs that either move you forward or keep you stuck.

03

Income

Building a healthier relationship with money and your ability to earn it — because confidence isn't just physical, it's financial too.

Devyn Alexandrea, founder of Build Her

About Me

Devyn Alexandrea — Personal & Accountability Coach

Hi, I'm Devyn. Not long ago I was 209 pounds and in the middle of my own rock bottom — getting sober, rebuilding my body, and figuring out who I was underneath all of it. I built my body back one workout at a time. I built my mind back one honest day at a time. Since then I've lost 70+ pounds, stayed sober, and built a life I used to just talk about wanting — including saying "I do" to the life I have now.

I don't coach from a textbook — I coach from having actually done the work: the check-ins I didn't want to show up for, the days discipline mattered more than motivation, and the slow, unglamorous process of becoming someone I'm proud of. My job now is to be the person in your corner who won't let you quit on yourself — the same way I refused to quit on me.

Work With Me

Coaching Packages

Investment begins at $1,500. Every client starts with a free consultation so we can figure out what you actually need — here's what's available.

Body Reset

Build the habits.

Weight loss & accountability

6 WEEKS • 6 PRIVATE HOURS

$1,500 paid in full, or 6 weekly payments of $275 ($1,650 total)
  • 1 private 60-minute coaching session every week (6 total)
  • Personalized habit + routine plan
  • Exercise & nutrition habit accountability
  • Weekly progress review + goal tracking
  • Private Monday–Friday text + voice-note access
  • Weekday responses within 1 business day
  • Resources/referrals when appropriate
VIP

Full Rebuild

Build the life.

Body + Mind + Lifestyle

6 WEEKS • 14+ PRIVATE HOURS

$3,600 paid in full, or 6 weekly payments of $625 ($3,750 total)
  • 2 private 60-minute coaching sessions every week (12 total)
  • Body + Confidence frameworks customized to you
  • Personalized Body + Mind strategy
  • One 2-hour Lifestyle Intensive (see below)
  • Priority Monday–Friday text + voice-note access
  • Priority weekday response
  • Resource/referral navigation when appropriate

What's a Lifestyle Intensive?

A 2-hour in-person or virtual intensive built around the part of your life that needs hands-on support most — grocery shopping, post-weight-loss wardrobe help, confidence outings, gym orientation, meal-prep/routine reset, home organization, or another personalized session we design together.

Local travel within 15 miles included. Additional travel may be available for an added fee.

Coaching here means habits, accountability, mindset, and lifestyle support — not medical treatment. For medical nutrition therapy, dosing, or clinical/recovery care, I'll always point you to a licensed professional.

Book a Free Consultation

Pick a time that works for you and let's talk about your goals. No pressure — just an honest conversation about where you are and how I can help.

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